Therapy That Meets You Where You Are—and
Takes You Where You Want to Go
If you’re feeling anxious, stuck in old patterns, or overwhelmed by all the roles you’re juggling, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep holding it all together on your own.
At LifeBalance Counseling Coaching and Wellness, we specialize in mental health care that actually fits your life. Whether you're navigating career pressure, shifting relationships, lingering trauma, or new roles like parenthood, we help you reclaim clarity, confidence, and control.
Your Experience Is Unique. So Is Our Care.
We don’t believe in one-size-fits-all solutions. Our multidisciplinary team brings together a diverse set of tools and perspectives—including EMDR, IFS, Integrative Nutrition, and Perinatal Mental Health expertise—to craft care that’s tailored to your identity, your story, and your goals.
You might come to us feeling burned out, emotionally drained, or unsure of who you’re becoming. And together, we’ll help you:
Untangle what’s beneath your anxiety or self-doubt
Build tools to manage stress and regulate emotions
Heal unresolved trauma in a way that feels safe and empowering
Redefine your identity with confidence through major life changes
Find balance without sacrificing your sense of self
What Makes LifeBalance Different?
Collaborative Expertise: Our team consults across specialties, bringing layered insight and personalized strategies to each client's experience.
Inclusive, Identity-Affirming Care: We honor the full complexity of who you are—culturally, emotionally, relationally.
Purposeful Matching: You’re paired with a clinician who aligns with your goals and can guide you with compassion and clarity.
Whole-Person Wellness: Whether it’s therapy, nutrition, trauma support, or navigating the stress of new roles—your wellness matters here.
If you’re ready to stop just surviving and start living with intention, we’re here—and we’re ready when you are.
This is therapy that works for you.
Let’s build something steady, supported, and healing—together
Meet the Rochester Team
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Alyshia Kelleher, LCMHC — Clinical Director (She/Her)
A Grounded Space to Untangle the Noise—and Begin to Feel Like Yourself Again
Somewhere along the way, managing life became less about living and more about bracing yourself for the next wave. Alyshia understands how overwhelming it can be to hold it all together while quietly unraveling underneath. In therapy with Alyshia, you simply arrive—and she’s already in your corner.
As LifeBalance’s Clinical Director and a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Alyshia brings nearly a decade of experience working with people who are ready for change and unsure where to begin. Alyshia creates a space where messiness is allowed, stories unfold slowly, and healing happens at your pace.
Whether you’re moving through anxiety that’s become all-consuming, struggling with the weight of low self-worth, navigating past trauma, or just feeling stuck in a life that no longer fits— Alyshia can help.
Alyshia believes therapy should help you build skills to manage what life throws at you while reconnecting to what matters most. Alyshia helps you to explore your internal world with honesty, regulation, and a sense of agency.
In sessions with Alyshia, you might:
- Build emotional regulation strategies that feel doable in everyday life
- Understand your patterns and reshape unhelpful narratives
- Reconnect with your inner strengths and learn to trust them again
- Practice boundaries without guilt and self-compassion without apology
- Move from stuckness into small, meaningful momentum
- Feel more grounded and less consumed by the weight of “holding it all together”Clients describe Alyshia as clear, reassuring, and quietly powerful. Her support doesn’t feel like fixing—it feels like someone walking beside you while you figure out what healing looks like for you.
Therapy with Alyshia is a chance to stop surviving and start remembering who you are underneath it all.
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Brett Payeur, LICSW (He/Him)
A Calm Presence When the Ground Feels Unsteady
Brett knows that some seasons of life just feel heavier than others—and that it’s not always easy to name why. Maybe you're grieving something (or someone) and aren't even sure what you're supposed to do with it. Maybe you're burnt out, stuck in self-doubt, or just feeling lost in the swirl of too many changes. Wherever you are, Brett offers a steady hand and an open, nonjudgmental space to land.
With over a decade of experience and certification as an Advanced Grief Counseling Specialist, Brett supports adults through life transitions, losses (both visible and invisible), and moments of deep emotional overwhelm. He brings a calm, grounded energy to each session—meeting you with quiet encouragement, thoughtful reflection, and zero pressure to “have it all figured out.”
Brett helps people slow down, make sense of what they’re carrying, and reconnect with the parts of themselves that get lost under stress, perfectionism, or long-standing patterns. His approach is collaborative and down-to-earth, drawing from trauma-informed care, strengths-based work, and mindfulness practices. He’s also experienced in supporting folks navigating ADHD, identity shifts, substance use and recovery and burnout recovery.
When you work with Brett, you can expect to:
- Feel seen and understood—without needing to over-explain
- Process grief and change at your own pace
- Rebuild self-trust and emotional resilience
- Learn practical coping tools that actually work for youExplore who you are becoming, not just who you’ve been
When working with Brett you will feel like you have room to breathe and be human. Brett doesn’t offer quick fixes or textbook answers—he offers presence, perspective, and a sense that you’re not alone in whatever you’re going through.
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Evan Berg, LICSW (He/Him)
Therapy That Gets Real—Without Losing Compassion
There’s a certain kind of relief that comes from talking to someone who isn’t trying to fix you—just trying to understand you. That’s what it’s like to work with Evan.
Evan Berg is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who shows up with honesty, patience, and respect for the full complexity of who you are. His work isn’t about surface-level solutions or checklists—it’s about helping you make sense of your internal landscape, identify what’s not working, and move toward change that feels sustainable.
If you're feeling emotionally overloaded, stretched between competing roles, stuck in patterns that don’t make sense anymore, or simply unsure what you need—Evan can help. Evan will support you to slow down, zoom out, and start asking better questions. If you are an adult facing burnout, identity shifts, stress from high-responsibility roles, and the quiet grief of unmet expectations, Evan is your therapist.
With training in trauma-informed care, systems theory, and behavioral approaches, Evan blends insight with practical strategies—always shaped by your goals and values. He doesn’t assume; he gets curious. He doesn’t rush; he reflects. And he’s not afraid to name the hard stuff and he always does it with care.
He’s someone you can show up to fully—especially when you're not at your best—and still feel respected, even understood.
In therapy with Evan, you can expect to:
- Untangle the mental clutter and reconnect with your own voice
- Build boundaries without guilt or over explaining
- Explore how your past is impacting your present—without getting stuck there
- Learn skills to manage stress, regulate emotions, and stay present
- Feel less alone in the mess, and more capable of navigating itWhether you’re in the room with him in Rochester or meeting virtually, Evan creates space for honesty, healing, and growth.
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Stacy Carpenter, LICSW, MLADC (She/Her)
Straight Talk. Deep Care. Real Change.
Working with Stacy isn’t about sugar-coating things. She’s the kind of therapist who will meet you exactly where you are—with honesty, humor, and a whole lot of heart. If you're looking for someone who can help you cut through the noise, face the hard stuff, and still laugh along the way, you're in the right place.
Stacy is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in both New Hampshire and Maine, and a Master’s Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor with over two decades of experience supporting people navigating the most human parts of being human. Whether you’re working through substance use, supporting someone who is, or just trying to hold your life together without falling apart—Stacy offers a rare blend of directness and warmth that helps people feel both supported and challenged.
She’s especially skilled at helping folks who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or worn down by old patterns—people who are ready to shift but aren’t quite sure how. That might look like building a more balanced relationship with alcohol, untangling grief, managing ADHD, navigating burnout, or just learning how to actually take care of yourself in the middle of all the chaos.
Stacy doesn’t do therapy from a pedestal. Stacy brings practical tools to the table—but also knows when what’s really needed is to sit with you in the heaviness, without trying to fix it right away.
In her office, it’s okay to be a mess. It’s okay to laugh. It’s okay to say the thing you’ve never said out loud.
When you work with Stacy you’ll:
- Get honest about what’s working—and what’s really not
- Explore your relationship with substances and coping patterns, without shame
- Build emotional regulation skills and better boundaries
- Strengthen communication in relationships (including with yourself)
- Feel more grounded, more clear, and more in charge of your choicesClients often describe her as “refreshingly real” and “exactly what I needed.” She won’t just nod and ask how that makes you feel—she’ll help you figure out what to do with those feelings, and how to move forward with a little more hope, resilience, and confidence.
Therapy with Stacy is the kind of work that doesn’t end when the session does.
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Susan Hamann, LMFT (She/Her)
For the Moments When Talking Just Isn’t Enough
Not everything can be put into words. Sometimes the things we carry live in our shoulders, in our stomachs, in the spaces between thoughts—and that’s where Susan begins.
Susan Hamann is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with more than 15 years of experience helping people slow down, get curious about their inner experience, and find solid ground again. Her approach is gentle but anchored, intuitive but structured. She’s not afraid of big emotions, long silences, or the messy middle of healing.
She works with adolescents, adults, couples, and families who are navigating the rough patches—the anxious spirals, the stuck relationships, the grief that lingers longer than expected, the tension that never seems to leave your body. Her work blends talk therapy with Trauma Informed Yoga Certification woven in, helping you tune into what’s happening beneath the surface and reconnect with parts of yourself that may have been buried by stress, trauma, or the pressure to “keep it together.”
With Susan, there’s room to sit with what’s hard without needing to explain it right away. She’s skilled at helping people who have always been the “strong one” let their guard down, and people who’ve never tried therapy feel safe enough to try.
When you work with Susan, you might learn to:
- Notice how anxiety shows up in your body—and how to soften it
- Start listening to what your emotions are actually trying to tell you
- Move through conflict with more clarity and less reactivity
- Understand the old patterns you’re ready to release
- Feel more present, more connected, and more fully youClients who work with Susan say she is calm and deeply attuned. She offers more than a space to vent—she offers a space to reconnect, realign, and root back into your own strength.
Therapy with Susan is about remembering that healing is possible.
Meet the Hampstead Team
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Alyssa Beecher, LCMHC (She/Her)
When Your Emotions Feel Unbearable, Alyssa Offers a Steadying Hand and a Clear Path Forward
Some days, it’s not about fixing everything—it’s about finding a moment that doesn’t feel so heavy. Alyssa understands that emotional intensity can feel disorienting, exhausting, and like too much to carry alone. Her work begins with offering a space where your experience doesn’t have to be minimized or rushed—it gets to be fully felt and thoughtfully explored.
Alyssa is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor with specialized training in EMDR for trauma. She supports adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma recovery, and the daily struggle of emotional overwhelm. With a presence that’s calm but clinically grounded, she helps untangle the knots of distress and build something sturdier in their place.
Her therapeutic style is clear, attuned, and directive. She knows that healing takes more than insight—it takes practical strategies, nervous system care, and permission to be exactly where you are.
In sessions with Alyssa, clients often:
Learn how to soothe emotional intensity before it spirals
Develop regulation skills to feel safe within their own body
Process trauma in a way that honors both pain and resilience
Identify and shift patterns that keep them feeling stuck
Build self-trust and a more compassionate internal voice
Leave sessions feeling more organized, more capable, and more whole
Alyssa is not interested in quick fixes—she’s invested in helping you become someone who can face life’s storms with steadiness and clarity.
With Alyssa you will learn that you can be scared and still move forward.
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Carina Sherman, LICSW (She/Her)
A Quiet Place to Land—And Begin Again
Sometimes, just being okay can feel like a full-time job. The world doesn’t slow down, even when you need it to—and holding it all together starts to feel like too much. Carina Sherman knows that space to breathe, to feel, and to be fully seen isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline.
Carina is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with more than 18 years of experience supporting teens and adults through moments of emotional heaviness, internal doubt, and quiet unraveling. Her presence is soft but steady. She doesn't rush your story or push past your pain—she honors the pace you need and the truth you carry.
Whether you're navigating anxiety that won’t let up, grief that doesn’t make sense to anyone else, self-worth struggles, or simply feeling disconnected from who you used to be, Carina offers a space where you don’t have to be “on.” You just have to show up—and she’ll meet you there, with compassion and care.
Carina’s work is deeply person-centered and trauma-informed. She helps clients rebuild trust in themselves, learn tools to regulate emotions, and explore their inner world with kindness rather than criticism. Carina believes healing looks different for everyone—but it always starts with being heard.
In sessions with Carina, you might:
Learn how to recognize and respond to your emotional needs
Challenge the voice of your inner critic and reclaim self-compassion
Navigate life’s messiness without shutting down or burning out
Grieve what’s been lost—people, relationships, versions of yourself
Begin to feel more like yourself, not less
Clients describe Carina as calming, wise, and remarkably present.
If you’ve been holding it all in, or holding it all alone, therapy with Carina is a reminder: you don’t have to anymore.
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Jody Vourgarakis, LICSW (She/Her)
When You Need More Than Reassurance—You Need a Way Through
Some seasons of life don’t just knock the wind out of you—they flatten you. Maybe it’s the fog of postpartum depression. The quiet, aching grief of infertility. The kind of anxiety that doesn’t just whisper—it shouts. Jody Vourgarakis shows up for people in those moments, when nothing feels manageable and everything feels like too much.
With over 17 years of experience, including frontline work in emergency services and inpatient care, Jody brings a level of calm clarity that only comes from walking people through crisis—again and again. She’s steady. She’s real. And she’s not afraid of the hard stuff.
Jody is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who specializes in working with adults facing maternal mental health challenges, trauma, grief, and periods of intense personal transition. Her approach is direct, grounded, and infused with empathy. She offers a way forward, one clear step at a time.
If you’ve been feeling like you're barely keeping your head above water, Jody is the kind of therapist who throws you a line and helps you build a raft.
Therapy with Jody is:
Focused on what’s actually helpful right now
Deeply validating, especially when you’ve felt invisible or dismissed
Centered on reclaiming your sense of control, voice, and direction
A safe space to name the losses that others may not understand
A collaboration—not a lecture, and not just listening
Jody helps people reconnect with their inner strength—even (and especially) when that strength feels completely out of reach.
This work isn’t easy. But you don’t have to do it alone. And you don’t have to be “fine” to begin. Jody will meet you there.
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Wendy Spalinger, LICSW (She/Her)
A Gentle Guide Through Life’s Unsteady Seasons
Some moments shift everything—grief that rewrites the days, transitions that leave you untethered, responsibilities that feel heavier than your own capacity.
As a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with more than two decades of experience, Wendy works with adults moving through the ache of change, the fog of anxiety, and the quiet weight of trauma. She listens for the rhythm beneath the words—offering care that considers the whole you, not just the struggle you're bringing into the room.
Wendy’s approach is as much about restoration as it is about resilience. She creates a space where healing unfolds naturally, through reflection, safety, and deep respect for your process.
In therapy with Wendy, you might:
Gently sort through complicated emotions without feeling rushed
Build capacity for emotional regulation in the midst of everyday stress
Explore grief in a way that feels personal, sacred, and unpressured
Gain clarity during life transitions that leave you questioning your footing
Reconnect to parts of yourself that have felt lost or muted
Support a loved one while still honoring your own emotional boundaries
Work with Wendy is about walking with you, at a pace that fosters real clarity and lasting emotional steadiness.
Meet the Online Therapy Team
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Kaleigh Santa Clara, LICSW (She/Her)
*Not accepting clients at this time
Gentle Clarity in the Midst of Emotional Storms
There are moments in life when it all just feels like too much—when grief blurs the edges of your days, when anxiety won’t loosen its grip, when your inner world feels too tangled to face alone. Kaleigh Santa Clara offers a space to slow down, make sense of the weight you’ve been carrying, and begin—gently—moving through it.
Kaleigh is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Grief Informed Professional who works with teens and adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, and loss in all its forms. With her, therapy doesn’t require you to have it all figured out. Her quiet strength and thoughtful presence invite you to bring your full self—uncertainty, sadness, numbness, messiness—and be met with respect, care, and calm.
Her work is especially supportive for those moving through ambiguous or disenfranchised grief, painful life transitions, or complex emotional histories that feel difficult to name. Kaleigh offers more than emotional support—she brings skilled, evidence-informed guidance shaped to your unique pace and needs.
You won’t be pushed. You won’t be pathologized. You’ll be supported—step by step—as you find your way back to steadiness, clarity, and connection.
In therapy with Kaleigh, you may:
Begin to untangle the emotional fog and name what’s been too heavy to carry alone
Gently reconnect with parts of yourself that feel distant, hidden, or shut downLearn how grief, trauma, or chronic stress may be shaping your inner world—and how to heal
Build emotional regulation tools that feel natural and empowering
Discover how to honor your story without being defined by it
Kaleigh offers not just a place to talk—but a space to heal, to be deeply witnessed, and to rediscover your own strength, even in life’s most tender seasons. -
Leslie Henderson-Pasquini, LICSW (She/Her)
Real Talk, Real Growth, Real You
If therapy has felt like a chore or a guessing game, Leslie’s approach is here to change that. She’s not about jargon or pressure—she’s about clear-eyed kindness and practical insight that helps you make sense of what’s going on, without glossing over the tough stuff.
With 15 years as a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, Leslie helps folks break down those sticky, repetitive patterns that keep holding them back. She’s big on helping you tap into your own strengths—sometimes ones you didn’t even realize you had—and figure out how to live more authentically, without the old scripts.
People who work with Leslie say she’s easy to talk to, refreshingly straightforward, and deeply thoughtful. Her style combines solid clinical know-how with a warm, “I get it” attitude.
Here’s what you’ll find in sessions with Leslie:
A judgment-free zone to explore what’s really going on beneath the surface
Tools to deal with stress that don’t feel like another item on your to-do listWays to build emotional grit without shutting down or checking out
Help understanding how your body and emotions talk to each other—and what that means for your relationships
Gentle nudges to stretch out of comfort zones, but at a pace that feels doable
Leslie’s not here to hand you a roadmap—she’s here to help you draw your own. If you want therapy that’s grounded, honest, and infused with a little bit of heart, this might be the place you’ve been looking for.
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Sarah Guth, LICSW (She/Her)
Someone You Can Talk to When It All Feels Like Too Much
Sarah knows that life gets messy—and that sometimes, the hardest part is just figuring out where to begin. With over 10 years of experience supporting children, teens, and families in diverse settings, she now focuses on helping adults—especially those in young to middle adulthood—who feel overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck on autopilot.
Maybe your mind won’t stop racing. Maybe your to-do list keeps growing, but your motivation and energy are nowhere to be found. Whether it’s anxiety, executive dysfunction, or complicated relationships that are weighing you down, Sarah brings clarity, kindness, and calm to each session, helping you sort through the noise and start moving forward.
As a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, with certification in Solution Focused Therapy and training in Internal Family Systems, Sarah takes a trauma-informed, culturally inclusive approach that’s centered on you. She meets you where you are—not where you “should” be—and helps you:
Quiet your inner critic and challenge negative thought patternsBuild emotional resilience and better coping strategies
Reconnect with your values, goals, and sense of purpose
Create more structure, follow-through, and self-trust
Navigate life’s chaos with more confidence and less pressure
Clients describe her as grounding, encouraging, and real. Sarah creates a space where, you won’t be asked to “fix” yourself—you’ll be supported in exploring what’s getting in the way, finding your own solutions, and slowly shaping a life that feels more manageable, meaningful, and like you.
This is therapy that welcomes all of you—the messy parts, the tired parts, the uncertain parts. When you work with Sarah, it’s safe to slow down, get honest, and figure things out—one step at a time.
Meet the Administrative Team
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Jessica Wain, Client Care Coordinator (She/Her)
Your First Point of Connection and a Steady Guide Behind the Scenes
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to navigate therapy logistics or unsure where to start, Jessica is the person who brings calm, clarity, and heart to it all.
As LifeBalance’s Client Care Director, Jessica is often the first voice you’ll hear—and one of the most important people working tirelessly to make your experience feel easy, supportive, and aligned with your needs. She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology and brings over a decade of lived and professional experience from residential and inpatient treatment settings. That means she understands what it’s like to face emotional overwhelm and knows how to meet people where they are—with empathy, patience, and warmth.
Clients often say they feel immediately welcomed by her—never rushed, never judged. Whether you’re reaching out for the first time, exploring your options, or figuring out next steps, Jessica is here to walk you through the process and make sure every detail feels manageable and clear.
She’s been with LifeBalance since the very beginning, and we truly wouldn’t run as smoothly without her steady leadership. Her role isn’t just administrative—it’s relational, grounding, and absolutely essential to the care we provide.
Questions about starting therapy or navigating services? Jessica’s got you. She’s your behind-the-scenes advocate, making sure your path into healing feels supported from day one.
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Julie Parker, Client Care and Billing Specialist (She/Her)
Detail-Oriented, Tenacious, and the Quiet Force That Keeps Things Running Smoothly
When you’re trying to sort out the details of insurance, billing, or benefits, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. That’s where Julie shines. She’s the kind of person who spots the error no one else caught, makes the right phone call at just the right moment, and doesn’t give up until your billing concerns are truly resolved.
Julie joined LifeBalance in 2023, bringing with her a sharp eye, real-world experience, and an unwavering commitment to client care. Whether it’s managing disputes, navigating denials, or coordinating complex eligibility checks—she digs deep, advocates fiercely, and keeps everything organized behind the scenes.
She’s not only the expert on the logistical details; she’s also the friendly face greeting clients at our Rochester, NH office a few days a week. Julie ensures the space feels welcoming, tidy, and stocked with everything your visit needs to go smoothly. She’s the glue of our admin team—a calm and capable multitasker who makes sure nothing slips through the cracks.
Need help getting started, untangling insurance, or just navigating the intake process? Julie’s got your back. She brings warmth, precision, and a whole lot of dedication to everything she touches.
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Riley Brooks, Client Care and Marketing Support (She/Her)
A Familiar, Supportive Face from Your Very First Step
Riley has been part of LifeBalance’s journey since 2021, starting as an undergraduate intern and growing alongside the practice with purpose and heart. Now a Master's-level social worker and full-time community mental health clinician, she continues to show up in meaningful ways for our team—and for you.
You’ll often find Riley at our Rochester, NH office or connecting by phone as one of the first people welcoming you into care. She helps clients navigate the intake process, answers questions with clarity and kindness, and makes sure your first steps into therapy feel smooth, supported, and low-pressure.
Clients describe Riley as thoughtful, approachable, and truly helpful—especially when starting therapy feels intimidating or uncertain. Her lived and clinical experience gives her a deep understanding of what it’s like to reach out for help—and she’s here to make that process feel grounded and affirming.
Whether you’re calling for info or checking in for an appointment, Riley is there—helping make your care feel connected from the start.
Jessica M. Pinkham, LICSW (She/Her)
Founder, Visionary, and Relentless Advocate for Whole-Person Wellness
Jessica is the founder and owner of LifeBalance Counseling Coaching and Wellness, and the heartbeat behind its mission. With over 23 years of professional experience as a psychotherapist and more than a decade spent building and leading one of New Hampshire’s most integrative and inclusive mental health practices, she’s not just a provider—she’s a culture shaper and community builder.
She specializes in supporting individuals across diverse identities and life experiences, guiding clients through anxiety, depression, burnout, and major life transitions with a person-centered, trauma-informed lens. As a certified Mental Health Integrative Medicine Provider, Jessica brings holistic and nutritional assessments into care, deeply honoring the connection between mental, physical, and systemic wellness.
Though not currently accepting new clients, Jessica offers high-level consultations to support those working with other LifeBalance clinicians—ensuring continuity, ethical integrity, and care that actually feels connected.
And her commitment to helping others thrive doesn’t stop there.
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